OT: And NOW I remember why I don't have female friends......

I feel you on that one.  She had no right to discuss your business.  She gives the "Holy" people a bad name.  Some people really can't help themselves. 

MM I have 1 true partner in crime and she is the once who convinced me to have surgery (she always was a 4/6) and also to buy a house or to be my best and she is awesome...I think that friends like her are very unusual and I also have had friends that dropped off the face of the planet with the continuous improvements I have made in my life...It is so childrish for grown women to be acting like teenagers and worse and as stated before I would possibly confront the situation but more than likely the truth would not come out...Good luck with ehatever decision you make.

and u know what?  i DO have a homie like that - been rolling HARD in the Paint since before my surgery - SHE'S the one that peeped game on the fake broad.

That is nasty and hurtful.  I'm sorry that you dealing with this drama.  Just know that if she is the holler roller she claims to be that 1) she should know, judge not lest ye be judged,  (and judgment is coming) and 2) Not trying to be funny here, but sic the Holy Spirit on her.  God's judgment and correction is PERFECT!  His wrath and judgment far surpasses anything we could come up with and will hit her right in the spot that will sting the most.  Let Him correct her girl.  Shake the dust from your shoes and keep strolling.  There are far more people that love and except you than the few that don't.

Man - that just IRKS me!!!!!  cause with all the craziness in HER life that I don't AGREE with but SUPPORT..... I would have thought it would be different....

live and learn!!! 

You know sweetheart, sometimes God asks us to prune the dead weight out of our lives and maybe that is just what this was.  You will grow far faster and better without her "deadness" to drag you down.  If you need correction or direction, that will come from God himself.  He didn't need sister super christian to do it for Him.  Sometimes, I just wish these so called christians would take off the uniform and play for the other team if they are going to go around hurting people like they do.  WE are called to love each other and  when needed, to correct each other BUT to do it in love not go spread yo biznes 'round like a gossiping 5th grader!!!

I feel you - that's another point with her - that I umm, can't be REALLY Christian if I don't follow ALL the word ALL the time.

The kicker?  She called herself 'quoting' to me - said that every woman must take a husband.

  which version is that in?  I musta HAD to miss that part, cause I got the book that mentioned 'he who finds a wife finds a good thing'......... I asked for the book, chapter and verse - guess she still flipping page for page....... told her google might be faster

Okay??!!!!  Maybe bible gateway may be of some help!!!  Not sure what she needs, but I know this, she'll be searching until the second coming.  In all truth, see INTERPRETED something wrong and then she spreading her misunderstanding like grass seed!  Pray for her, let it go and move on sweetheart!

EXACTLY - I wanted to say - naw YOU think every woman needs to take a husband - but my NEXT spin woulda been......

how many times you TAKE something and then not like it.  But how many times you LOVE something GIVEN to you by someone who loves you?????? 

Yea, I know - TOO DEEP.  looks to me like the HEATHEN might have a better understanding than the CHRISTIAN in that case........

I got a transgressions checklist - I KNOW exactly what I'm doin, Saint Peter ain't gotta show me - we will have to compare notes when I get to the gate!  LOL - I'll be like 'naw - that one wasn't me, I jus****CHED that one.... umm... yea - that was on the 17th, not the 15th.... and um - I only did that 6 times - you got 7 here....... and does it STILL count if it's a midget?'

!!!!  Gurrll pleeeeze, my list would spontaneously combust in my hands!!!  ...sizzle...sizzle...sizzle...